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Angel08
I am Angelia Vernon Menchan, woman, wife, mother, mentor friend. I have been employed as a Budget Officer for many years, but my altar(sic) ego is as a writer of 'Fictionalized Truths.' Since, January 2006, I have written and self-published six books through MAMM Productions, my own publishing compa...
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Do You See Me

Friday, September, 5, 2008

What is it you see when you see me, I am a woman, I am Black, I am tall, thick (my man loves thickness)...I have many things going on, married, mother, sister, friend, professional, writer, reader, thinker, be-er, but what do you see,

Does me being a woman make you think you know what I will say, how I will say it or what I will do, Or do preconcieved notions exisit because I am Black or tall or full-bodied and proud of it...Do you wonder if I can relate to your childless state because I am a mother, or be indifferent to your single state because I am married, You don’t know do you?

You know what is cool, You can ask me, and I can tell you...simple, no?

Peace!

angelia


poetic genesis
poetic genesis
Posted Fri, 09/05/2008 - 08:44
Not only do I see you, but I feel you. I had an online conversation with a few of my female friends on how I miss my previous friendships. Because life happened (family, marriage) it's like they felt they were imposing when it was quite the opposite...I needed them even more because they were a part of my life and they didn't 'see' how they could continue being important to me since I had all 'that' going on. They felt, I could no longer relate.

But you live, you learn, and you keep it moving, right? So many misconceptions and so little time to conquer them all. I choose my battles wiser now.

Great blog Mama Deep and HAPPY HAPPY Friday

Mi amour
G-Nice
Bizarre JC
Bizarre JC
Posted Fri, 09/05/2008 - 08:59
I guess for me I have a little bit of this challenge. I know it's because I put up a hard exterior before a person gets to really know. I don't want to be hurt. However, I am more than just skin. I hold the best part of me hidden deep within. If you really want to know the person I call me, take the time to ask the questions and the answers you will receive. You are a caring loving woman Mama Deep. I love that part of you. Love you more than words could say. Bizarre JC Martin http://bizarrejcmartin.blogspot.com Http://wednesdaysandfridays.blogspot.com
Angel08
Angel08
Posted Fri, 09/05/2008 - 09:01
I love you both my children, so much I gave you names, Sweet Jen amd G-Nice mama deep
krrobi
krrobi
Posted Fri, 09/05/2008 - 13:17
I see you, and I like what I see...but especially, I like what you say! :) Thanks for having a strong voice.
Angel08
Angel08
Posted Fri, 09/05/2008 - 15:11
Thanks krrobi, Smooches! angelia