I'm a feminist because....
By Jessica.M, Wednesday, July 1, 2009, 2 commentsHow many times have I encountered women, especially in my age group and younger, say "I'm not a feminist, but..." and then go on to espouse feminist values. The frustration that follows, for those of us who are all about embracing the title of feminist, has been discussed exhaustively. There's few things I have to say about that.
Folks need to get over why they don't think they're feminists and why they feel the need to add that disclaimer before expressing an opinion about women's equality.
I'm ALL ABOUT embracing feminism as a title. I don't care if people want to assume that that makes me a man-hating, unshaven, ugly, lesbian. As I've stated in the past "so what if I am?" First of all, if I hate men, I have really good reasons and it's totally reactionary, second of all shaving is totally over-rated, third, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and finally, since when was that any of your business?
Anyhoo, I don't need to disprove any of the things that are said about feminists because as far as I'm concerned it's the same as trying to prove that not all engineers are socially inept geeks that love star trek and don't get women. The point is that, as with most stereotypes, they are exagerrations, are a result of backlash, and are generally untrue or at least mostly untrue for the majority of the populations they represent (except for engineers, it's well known we're all a bunch of asexual dweebs).
That said, here are ten reasons I am a feminist activist:
1) Inequality makes me angry
2) I believe that I have a right to be angry
3) The course of history doesn't move toward equality on its own
4) To paraphrase many a civil rights leader and feminists - the oppressor won't give up power willingly and you can't use the masters' tools to dismantle the master's house.
5) It's a man's world, but it shouldn't be
6) Women's equality is a critical component in achieving other important goals, including ending poverty, addressing climate change, creating solutions for global environmental policy and achieving world peace
7) I want a better world for myself.
8) I also want a better world for my sisters and any future children I may have, but definitely for my nieces and heck, nephews too.
9) Men benefit from male privilege, while women are oppressed - this is just unfair
10) I deserve equality
Why are you a feminist? (I will throw my high-heel at you if you start your message, "I'm not a feminist, but...")



















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why I'm a feminist
for all the reasons already listed by Jessica
because I'm not a masochist
because I'm ticked off by the fact women did not have the right to vote in the U.S. until 1920
because multiple forms of oppression work together, and I am against racism, and heterosexism, and ableism as well as sexism
because the personal is political, as they used to say
because I had anorexia nervosa and almost died of it as a young woman, partly due to the societal objectification of women's bodies and feminists care about changing that
because I've read about women's history, and the history of the feminist movement, and I wanted to be part of that movement
because I don't believe in dying my hair blonde just to attract some guy
because I don't like being considered the second sex, even in my own family
because many of my family members have concluded I must be some lesbian freak, and I don't really care as being a feminist means not buying into stereotypes
because I found myself in Ms. Magazine as a teenager and knew where I belonged
because women's work is never done, and we're underpaid, and the world is unequal, unfair, and in need of correction
I am a feminist because ...
* I can trace all of the worlds problems to hang-ups about sex and gender.
* I'm sick and tired of being demeaned by an term of endearment instead of being treated as a professional.
* I never want me daughter to be the victim of violence against women.
* Somebody's gotta stand up and shout.
Jessica and Jen, I love your lists. I plan to "borrow" a couple of them very soon for other venues.
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